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Would you ever have an 'open' relationship?

Would you ever have an 'open' relationship?
Yes --- I would consider
20%
 20%  [ 8 ]
Yes --- Im doing it now!
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Yes --- Im lonely and desperate, anything is better than nothing.
2%
 2%  [ 1 ]
Um Hell no --- Relationships are about being exclusive!
67%
 67%  [ 27 ]
No --- Ive already tried it and didnt work!
10%
 10%  [ 4 ]
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Open Relationship - He/She can do whatever, but they know where home is.
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When you have something good, ESPECIALLY a relationship, you're a fool to share it. One thing most black women will NOT tell their girlfriends is when they have someone who is hitting it RIGHT.

Sure as the sun will come up in the morning, their girlfriends will be hitting on him.
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Hell no!!!
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My personal preference is no. However, if he can handle it, then I can handle it....do we have an option to connect with someone else if the original parties are not willing to make the permanent tie? Yanno...some type of clause in case I grow tired of the "openness" and he doesn't? Twisted Evil Laughing
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I had one for quite a while. Worked out fine for the both of us.
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Really? Why? I'm just curious. Would you do it again?
[quote="LIYAH"]I had one for quite a while. Worked out fine for the both of us.[/quote]
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I can't really say TNP. It worked out really good for us at the time because I didn't really want to be in a committed relationship. And although I really liked him a whole lot, I definitely couldn't see us as being exclusive.

I guess it depends on what my needs are at that time. Right now I'm in an exclusive relationship and it's working out just fine. But if it ends I'd have to see what I was "up for" and take it from there.
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Okay
[quote="LIYAH"]I can't really say TNP. It worked out really good for us at the time because I didn't really want to be in a committed relationship. And although I really liked him a whole lot, I definitely couldn't see us as being exclusive.

I guess it depends on what my needs are at that time. Right now I'm in an exclusive relationship and it's working out just fine. But if it ends I'd have to see what I was "up for" and take it from there.[/quote]
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I voted for no. I'm stingy.
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[quote="SoulLady"]I voted for no. I'm stingy.[/quote]

Tell us something we don't already know! Twisted Evil Laughing
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ROFL!!!!
[quote="delta84"][quote="SoulLady"]I voted for no. I'm stingy.[/quote]

Tell us something we don't already know! Twisted Evil Laughing[/quote]
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[quote="LIYAH"]I had one for quite a while. Worked out fine for the both of us.[/quote]

Yep, me too.
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I voted yes. But I'm not interested in a committed to one person relationship, so I guess you could say I just want to date. Laughing
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Absolutely, positively not. Evil or Very Mad
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What are you sharing in a 'open' relationship, your mind or just your body? How do you grow and develop in such a relationship? Thou sex is important in a relationship, is this about no self control and how many beds you can jumb into?
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[quote="grassroot"]What are you sharing in a 'open' relationship, your mind or just your body? How do you grow and develop in such a relationship?[/quote]

I don't think you can in that type of relationship...I think to most people it's a temporary fix until something more meaningful comes...others just won't go without sex...and to others sharing isn't that deep to them...
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[quote="BoyToy"][quote="grassroot"]What are you sharing in a 'open' relationship, your mind or just your body? How do you grow and develop in such a relationship?[/quote]

I don't think you can in that type of relationship...I think to most people it's a temporary fix until something more meaningful comes...others just won't go without sex, they're in it for that...and to others sharing isn't that deep to them...[/quote]
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I kinda had one....and it was cool, for that point. I didn't want a "committed" relationship, but wanted to kick and go out and do the dating thing when I wanted to, so it was the perfect mix.

I knew who he was kickin it with and vice versa....there were some rules, like no friends, no lying, etc.

I think it's all about what you're looking for in a person/relationship.
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[quote="grassroot"]What are you sharing in a 'open' relationship, your mind or just your body? How do you grow and develop in such a relationship? Thou sex is important in a relationship, is this about no self control and how many beds you can jumb into?[/quote]

I enjoy dating. Simple as that. I'm concerned with my personal growth and development. I share whatever it is I decide to share with other people. Sex isn't that important to me, but it I decide I want sex, then so be it. I don't ever want to be married, or to have children (will make sure that never happens as soon as I make the doctors appointment). I just want to live my life without worrying about always answering to anyone but myself. I don't think a person like me is a "committed relationship" type of person. It's funny because I've known plenty of married people in open relationships, except one party forgot to inform the other one. Laughing
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