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Would you ever have an 'open' relationship?

Would you ever have an 'open' relationship?
Yes --- I would consider
20%
 20%  [ 8 ]
Yes --- Im doing it now!
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Yes --- Im lonely and desperate, anything is better than nothing.
2%
 2%  [ 1 ]
Um Hell no --- Relationships are about being exclusive!
67%
 67%  [ 27 ]
No --- Ive already tried it and didnt work!
10%
 10%  [ 4 ]
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jamesbone357



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Open relationships open doors to problems that could not be solved
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I think I misunderstood. If I were married or dating a guy that I hoped to marry, then I wouldn't want either of us seeing other people.
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[i][color=indigo]I answered Heck No.

There is so much to say on this subject and not enough time or space. Why do we feel it's okay to have a temporary relationship? What kind of higher purpose is served by a temporary relationship?

It's sad that the majority of us don't or refuse to see the harm in luvin and leavin people. We chalk it up to "it goes with the territory" and move on like it's all good. We don't even question "the territory of dating"; we just accept it and hope for the best. Then as we grow older, we wonder why we meet so many people with baggage. Pickings end up slimmer and slimmer because most people are used and abused and no one is concerned with changing it. We just complain and keep right on using and abusing ourselves and others, looking for something that can't exist in these conditions.

If we can't imagine ourselves being in a relationship with someone that is for their and our BEST interests, we have no business in a relationship. There are a whole plethora of societal ills that would be solved if people stopped jumpin from sex to sex.

Judging by our ancestry, where did we get the idea that it was okay to date around before marriage and why don't we even think about that?[/color][/i]
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I always love to see [i]plethora[/i] in print! Laughing
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[quote="delta84"]I always love to see [i]plethora[/i] in print! Laughing[/quote]

She probably had to look it up before she used it.

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All relationships are open...human beings are not owned therefore cannot be told what to do with their bodies/hearts/minds. However, they must bear the consequences of their actions Smile
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No.
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Say that consequences part again. Because some folks get blind when that part comes around. Laughing Laughing

[quote="Derektrini"]All relationships are open...human beings are not owned therefore cannot be told what to do with their bodies/hearts/minds. However, they must bear the consequences of their actions Smile[/quote]
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