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I am talking about in regards to meeting a female. Is there a problem if a female has too many of the same interests as a man, if she talks to you like she is one of the boys, etc? Is there a happy medium with being "lady like" and a friend?

For instance, you meet a chick, and she watches the game with you, goes to the strip club with you, drinks with you, does everything your boys do with you Laughing Does she become a potential mate, or one of your niggas now Laughing

I dated a dude who was too cool and so I just came to the conclusion that he was too soft for me Laughing It was not a big deal when he discussed various hair styles, but when the fool started planning out how to decorate my home.in addition to some other "girlfriend" type shit.... I had to just say..."Um yeah, this is a bit much for me" Laughing

I am from Chicago....dudes do NOT do that Laughing Laughing Oh he was a friend cause he had great ideas, but as a prospect.....naaaaaah Confused

So fellas could you date a tomboy Laughing
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[color=darkred]Damn sure could. You find a chick who is straight, mature (meaning not with all the "college boy" shit like burping/farting out loud and bragging on how she wore 3 niggas out last weekend), cool with all the 'guy' stuff INCLUDING strip clubs, and that also translates to her approach to sex and intimacy?? Really???


Sheeeeeeeit....you got her number?

I could see your point about a man being too soft and into girlie shit being a turnoff to a woman. But I don't see those two scenarios as equal.[/color]
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MHC why you trying to get my number Laughing Just kidding with you. I love me some football but I ain't going to the scrip club with nobody male or female.
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[quote="MrHardcandy"][color=darkred]Damn sure could. You find a chick who is straight, mature (meaning not with all the "college boy" shit like burping/farting out loud and bragging on how she wore 3 niggas out last weekend), cool with all the 'guy' stuff INCLUDING strip clubs, and that also translates to her approach to sex and intimacy?? Really???


Sheeeeeeeit....you got her number?

I could see your point about a man being too soft and into girlie shit being a turnoff to a woman. But I don't see those two scenarios as equal.[/color][/quote]


I think men accept things a lil more Laughing Laughing Seriouslya women being dominant is probrably more accepted than a dude being soft Laughing


MHC the only chick I know like that is a lesbo, but it is funny because she is mad cool and dudes still step to her and she is kinda a stud Laughing Laughing
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[color=darkred]You saw my FIRST adjective was "straight". I know that quality it relatively rare with heterosexual women. I've known a couple of women who almost fit the bill, but they were lesbian as well. Turns out they liked hanging out for the access to other chicks...I was cool with that too. Surprised

htowns...you don't have to go, just be okay with me kicking it over there with my boys a few times a year[size=7]...and be okay with me driving hard to the basket once I get home![/size] Wink Wink Laughing [/color]
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